We’ve all been there, you meet a guy and suddenly the texts, phone calls, and hook-ups come flying in. As a girl we love the attention and sometimes want what follows… a relationship. You basically act like you are in one already with out all the commitment and the one who cares more is ultimately left in the grey… Listed below are five important reasons why you should move on and ditch Mr. Friends with Benefits.
1. He wants to have his cake and eat it too!
He wants you and every other girl when you are not around. You are his safety net and although he may enjoy seeing you, you are convenient and trust me you won’t be the only one. The Bliss won’t last forever and when it’s gone, you will wish you ran.
2. The double standard will drive you crazy
So you will feel bad about texting other guys and seeing them because he gets a tad jealous right? He has given you this false hope that maybe someday a relationship will bloom and you are scared to tamper with it, but let me assure you he’s not.
3. You are not Mulia Kunis and he is not Justin Timberlake!
Yeah, see that scene? It will end right there… He will not compose a flash mob at Grand Central to win you back… this isn’t a movie. Sorry girls!
4. If you spend too long holding onto the one who treats you as an option, you’ll miss finding the one who treats you like a priority!
Surprise! Not all guys are jerks, you may turn down or miss out on Mr. Right while you are to busy playing games with Mr. Wrong.
5. You deserve more!
If you don’t want the same things, what is the point? You deserve someone who is going to want to pursue you and only you. Why settle for someone who wants you and everyone else? Love yourself and respect yourself.