I wanted to write a letter to the incoming class of 2021 to share my experiences as a college student, so here is my letter to you.
Before you go to college, you’re given a lot of advice about what you should do and what you shouldn’t do and it become a bit of overwhelming sometimes, so I’m here to hopefully maybe make you relax a little bit.
After completely nearly two years of my college career here at TCNJ, I can honestly say that two years ago, I never would’ve thought I’d be where I am right now.
As an incoming freshman, it’s impossible not to feel nervous and anxious about making new friends, adjusting to the independence of living on your own, and getting used to a rigorous college course load. Of course, these are large adjustments, but you will get through it, I promise! Sometimes the first semester can be tough, because there’s so much change in your life, but you’ll soon feel comfortable on campus.
If you’re worried about making friends, join clubs and organizations. Go to events on campus and get to know the other students on your freshman floor. There’s so many opportunities to meet new people and there’s something out there for everyone.
If you’re worried about being homesick, that’s okay. We all get a little homesick. When that happens, just give your mom a call or look through photographs of you and your best friends from home and you’ll feel a lot better, trust me.
If you’re struggling in class, go to the Tutoring Center, talk to your professor, or form a study group. Despite how difficult college can be at times, the faculty and staff want you to succeed!
There’s a few things I also think you should keep in mind over the next four years. For instance, have fun. College is supposed to be an exciting time in your life, and whether that means going to parties, studying abroad, or even just hanging out and watching Netflix with your favorite people, you’re going to make lifelong connections with people.
Work hard. Study your butt off. Apply for internships. Run for Eboard for your favorite club. Work a part-time job on campus. Play a sport. Join a sorority. Whatever you’re passionate about, I encourage you to do it. There’s nothing more rewarding than having a full resume and a full life, because you are spending your time doing things that make you happy.
Perhaps the most important piece of advice I can give you, though, is that none of us know what we’re doing. We’re planning for the future, thinking about our future careers and families, but we’re all basically winging it, and that’s okay too. It’s impossible to know exactly where you will be four years from now, so embrace the unknown and do everything in your power to get you closer to where you want to be.
Good luck on your four year rollercoaster – it’s worth the ride!