This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Texas PB chapter.
Hello everyone! I have struggled with anxiety for many years and I have slowly found some coping mechanisms that personally help me control my anxiety and prevent anxiety attacks. I hope this can help you all!
General Anxiety:
Prevent Anxiety
- Stay organized (write ABSOLUTELY EVERYTHING IN MY PLANNER)
- Meal prep
- Prepare everything for next day the night before (outfits, purse, backpack, get gas)
- TLC (tender loving care) (baths, candles, naps, shopping)
- Distractions (music, show, projects)
During Anxiety Attack
- Remove yourself from the situation (go walk, go to another room, hang up a phone call, go to your vehicle)
- Grab something to fidget with (ball, paper, pen, color, makeup)
- Focus on your breathing (set a timer to only focus on breathing, place your hand on diaphragm to feel your breathing, light a candle and go smell it)
- Vent (journal, call someone you can trust, talk to a pet, pray)
- Have a weighted blanket (on your lap, chest, full body)
After Anxiety
- Recuperate (take a nap, bath, lay in bed)
- Grab your favorite drink (hot chocolate, tea)
- Cuddle with something you love (person, animal, blanket, stuffed animal)
- Watch/ listen to something (podcast, read, music, show, movie, video)
- Social Anxiety:
- Preparation
- Ensure you know a few different routes to take (if driving, walking, etc.)
- Words of affirmation (you’ll be okay, etc.)
- Have protection with you (whistle, pepper spray, taser)
- Make sure all devices are being charged (phone, tablet, headphones)
- Make plans for someone you trust is available just in case (talk on the phone, go with you, etc.)
During Social Interaction
- If alone
- Have earphones in (listen to calming music/podcast)
- If with others
- Think of calming things
- If you are freaking out
- Focus on breathing
- Have something to fidget with (anxiety jewelry, etc.)
- Â Remove yourself
After Social Interaction
- Reward yourself
- Make a goal for your next social interaction (mine is to go somewhere with a large crowd without my broth