After more than two years of lying in bed and taking zoom classes (which I’m pretty sure we all just slept through), we’ve finally returned to in-person classes. I thought it was going to be weird to see everyone without masks, but to be honest, it was a relief to know we can unpause whatever’s been going on the past two years.
The most surprising thing hasn’t just been the amount of students in my program, but the strange realization people already had their own groups. Even though I knew nobody cared that I walked into that class, I felt like all eyes were on me so see how I looked, how I dressed or even how I walk, (I swear I feel like I walk funny). I felt that way because everyone in there looked so effortlessly perfect, and I barely had the courage to get out of bed – let alone dress up.
Then, I realised something. I realised that I am not in highschool anymore and that nobody cares what you wore or what will please everyone in the room. No one knows what is going around them because it is all so new for everyone. Confidence is key. Confidence is what will get you through this year of classes, and that does not mean that you necessarily have to put yourself out there, but be open to (good) unexpected things to happen.
Being back in-person can be super overwhelming, and anxiety is perfectly normal, but if you stick to getting your work done on time and meeting new people along the way, then you’re already rocking it.
Here’s a little survival guide for your in-person classes:
1. Say “Hi!”
Sit next to someone in class, and don’t be afraid to say “Hi!” You never know, you might meet lifelong friends or at least get some help with your assignments :)
2. Don’t stress too much over assignments
One of my professors gave me advice I’ve never forgotten, “Your assignments and grades are not going to be the center of your career, but your talent.” This really stuck with me. Scheduling is important to manage time, and as long as you’re handing in your assignments on time, you should be good. The teachers are very helpful and will always be open to helping you and giving you an extension if you have a valid reason.
3. Join student groups
The best way, in my opinion, to make new friends and get involved with activities is to be a part of a few student groups. It will keep you engaged and you wouldn’t even feel out of place. Plus, you’ll have a few extracurriculars to add to your resume.
4. Morning Motivation
I know when I don’t get to campus early in the morning, it becomes very difficult for me to get out of bed and stay motivated! Having a regimented morning schedule makes it easy to stay energized. Whether that includes going to the gym, catching up on assignments, cooking your own breakfast, or a long shower, just take time for yourself in the mornings.
5. Don’t forget to have fun
You’re living the best years of your life right now, so don’t forget to have fun!