Everyone goes in with certain expectations for their freshman year of college. Some people are filled with excitement, and can’t wait for classes, new friends, and independent life. Others are a little more nervous to start the college experience, and that’s totally okay! Either way, there are some things that the tour guides won’t tell you about your freshman year. Here are a few things I wish someone had told me before I started my first year at Tufts:
1. It’s Okay If You Didn’t Do a Pre-Orientation
It can be daunting to show up for that first week of freshman orientation and realize that many other students have already been on campus for a week. As someone who didn’t participate in a pre-orientation program, I remember worrying that everyone had already found their best friends through their experience. For some people, that’s true, and that’s amazing! But remember that if you didn’t participate in one of the pre-orientation groups, that’s fine, too! Everyone is still looking to make new friends whether it seems like it or not, so don’t worry about being left out.
2. The Winter Is Super Cold
I mean, I know people say that the Boston winter is cold, but you’ll have no idea until you experience the never-ending blizzard that is the beginning of second semester for yourself.
3. Rate My Professors Can Be Wrong
Coming in as a freshman, it’s easy to assume that if a professor has a bad rating on Rate My Professors, then their class isn’t worth taking. While the site is definitely an important resource, some of my favorite classes have been with professors with a less-than-stellar rating. The best way to judge is to talk to people who’ve taken the class! Also, don’t be afraid to ask your advisor what courses they recommend.
4. Boston Is Amazing, But So Is Davis!
Yes, you should definitely spend time exploring the amazing city so close to us, but definitely don’t think of Davis as only a stop on the Red Line. There are tons of amazing cafés, restaurants, and shops to spend time in, all within a ten minute walking distance!
5. It’s Okay To Be Homesick
The first few weeks of school can be a really big adjustment. If you’re feeling lonely and homesick, it’s easy to assume that you’re the only one having a hard time. I can assure you that this is far from the case; although others may be afraid to admit it, many freshman struggle with homesickness. Take solace in the fact that you’re not alone, and also know that Tufts has amazing counseling and mental health services available for you if you ever need help or someone to talk to. Know that Tufts will start to feel like home soon enough, it just takes some time.
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