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Wellness > Sex + Relationships

50 Questions To Ask A Girl To Really Get To Know Her

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at U Conn chapter.

Looking to start up a good conversation with the cute girl in your Chemistry class? Are you interested in making a new friend or feeling out a potential new relationship? Finally convinced your Tinder match to meet up, but have nothing to talk about? 

Well look no further, I’ve compiled 50 questions that should definitely get a good conversation going and give you plenty to talk about. 

1. Do you accept compliments easily?

If not, why?

2. If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be?

3. Where do you feel most at home?

4. What is the most encouraging thing your parents have said to you?

5. Has your favorite color changed since you were a kid?

6. What childhood event do you think impacted you most as a person?

7. Who is the one person who knows you best?

Is it a best friend? Family member?

8. What did you think you were going to be when you grew up?

Did it change over time? Why?

9. What cliché do you hate hearing the most?

10. What’s your favorite attribute about yourself? Physical and mental?

11. Do you believe in love at first sight?

12. Would you rather hand write or type?

13. Do you remember the first book you read yourself?

14. What was the last thing that made you cry?

15. Favorite memory?

And why?

16. How many people in your life do you trust with your secrets?

17. What is your favorite time of year?

18. What never fails to make you smile?

19. What’s your favorite dish at Thanksgiving?

20.  Do you believe in karma?

And do you think yours is good or bad?

21. If they existed, what do you think your past life was like?

22. Are you proud of yourself? Why or why not?

23. What’s the story behind the last Instagram picture you posted?

24. What subject do you know the most about?

25. If money was no object, what would your dream job be?

26. Do you know your love language?

And do you communicate your love language to your S.O.?

27. Rain or snow?   

28. What is the most surprising item on your bucket list?

Have you done it?

29. When was the last time you told someone you loved them?

30. What do you wish you cared less about?

Is it a person? Place? Moment?

31.  What kind of personalities are you the most comfortable around?

32. What music do you listen to when you need background noise?  

33. What excuse do you commonly use to get out of plans?

34. What classic book do you absolutely hate?

 

35. If you had to pick one place to live for the rest of your life where would it be?

Is it in the States? Abroad?

36. Do you believe that two people in love can overcome any differences they have?

37. What’s your biggest deal-breaker?

38. What are you most afraid of?

39. What do you think is the best way to solve conflicts?

40. How many friends from your childhood do you still keep in touch with?

Is it all of them or just a select few?

41. Do you think of yourself as strong?

Physically? Emotionally?

42. Have you put any thought into your future wedding?

Tell me about it.

43. What color pen do you usually prefer to write in?

Blue? Black? Pink?

44. What has changed the most about you since graduating high school?

45. What emojis do you use the most?

46. Has a pickup line ever worked on you?

Which one?

47. When was the last time you gave someone a second (or third) chance?

48. Would you rather have tons of good friends but not know them very well or have 2-3 best friends and be super close?

49. Would you want to be famous?

50. If you could change one decision in your life, what would it be?

Why that specific one?

Molly Claire is a Journalism and Communication double major at UConn. She has a weird thing for killer whales, is a Hufflepuff, probably watches way more reality tv than is recommended. Molly's guilty pleasures include Shawn Mendes, pasta, and sunglasses collecting. She is in her fourth year as a pescatarian, and sometimes even she forgets. Molly's favorite things to blog about include college, greek life, travel, and The Bachelor. Check out her personal blog here and her other social media @mollyclairexo on Instagram and Twitter.