Picture this: it’s April 1. It’s a Thursday night, you’re exhausted from the week, and you just finished an organic chemistry exam. You decide to take the rest of the night to relax, so you open up Netflix to find a good movie to watch while you eat dinner. The window opens, and there it is, back under my list: Legally Blonde.
I love Legally Blonde. It’s definitely my go-to movie for any mood. Sad? Legally Blonde will help brighten your mood. Stressed about school? Legally Blonde can help motivate you and show you that hard work pays off. Girls night? Legally Blonde is a crowd-pleaser. It has everything: romance, friendship, comedy, important themes like believing in yourself and finding independence, and of course, a dog.
When I was in middle school, I felt like it was wrong for me to be traditionally feminine. I prided myself on my commitment to my education and enjoyment of things like reading, and I felt like being interested in things people consider “girly” would invalidate all that. So, I let that show in my music taste, clothes, and all the superficial parts of my life. But I can remember being little, in elementary school, and really enjoying all of those things that I had cut out of my life. I think a lot about how my life may have been different if I hadn’t gone through that phase and instead just allowed myself to exist more freely.
Now, Elle isn’t a perfect role model and definitely isn’t relatable to most people, as an affluent, white woman of privilege. But I still think that the message of being whatever you want to be no matter what others expect from you, and the reminder that women who embrace their femininity can still be powerful and intelligent, are very important ideas for young girls to grow up with. It’s something that I definitely needed to be exposed to more when I was growing up, and I think that Legally Blonde really helps get this message across to women of all ages.