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A Letter I Wrote to My Ex.

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at U Wyoming chapter.

You.

You made me believe, for so long,

that I didn’t deserve better.

That you were the best there was

for someone like me.

That I shouldn’t even try

to be, or to reach for, or even

look at myself better.

That I was such a screw up,

that no one but you could love me.

That’s sick.

That’s pathetic.

You even went as far as

sabotaging any inklings

towards me

by telling blatant lies.

I needed those friends.

I needed them, and you

made them hate me.

You made me all alone,

just so you could swoop in

and “save” me.

I didn’t need to be saved.

I just needed you to go away.

I thought, for so long,

that I was worthless.

You messed me up.

Forever.

I’ll get better, but I won’t forget.

You’re sick.

Thank you.

For teaching me how wonderful I am on my own.

For making me build my self-esteem to a healthy level.

For showing me there are much better things in the world,

than you.

Kaitlyn is a recent grad the University of Wyoming, where she got her degree in Marketing. She has been the Campus Correspondent for a Pink level chapter, a Chapter Advisor to some amazing chapters, and now has the pleasure of being a Region Leader. Born and raised on the Western Slope of Colorado, her love for nature and the outdoors comes naturally. Kaitlyn lives for football season, but finds way to stay preoccupied during the off-season. She enjoys long walks in the mountains, beer as cold as her heart, and bacon on her burgers. You can follow Kaitlyn’s adventures on Instagram, @kaysoup.