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3 Motivational Pieces to Get Through the Post-Election Blues

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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at UCF chapter.

Content warning: This article mentions topics of sexual assault.

For many Americans, Nov. 5 was one of the most stressful days in modern history. Of course, that’s said every election season, but with the policies and ideas being pushed by political candidates and the outcry of many first-time voters, the stakes felt especially high. High enough that many voters reported either staying up late to watch the votes pour in live or waking up at 5 a.m. to see the results. Regardless of whether you were burdened or delighted by the final choice, there has been a clear shift in our social and political atmosphere lately. So, to try and help lift some low spirits, here are three pieces of motivational work to lighten up the time leading to Inauguration Day. 

“Wild Geese” By Mary Oliver

I discovered this poem at the beginning of the fall semester when I faced a wave of self-doubt and acclimation; I didn’t know if I could handle my new responsibilities while getting further into my major and closer to my future. But when I heard a clip of Mary Oliver reciting her poem “Wild Geese” from the self-titled book, it softened something inside of me. The gentle, reassuring words brought me a sense of calm.

So, for those who feel out of place, unsafe, or unsure of what’s to come, I hope this poem brings some comfort. It encourages us to embrace our feelings while reassuring us that the world continues to turn. In times of distress, poetry can be a balm, fostering hope and connection and reminding us that brighter days lie ahead.

‘You do not have to be good.

You do not have to walk on your knees

for a hundred miles through the desert, repenting.

You only have to let the soft animal of your body

love what it loves.

Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.

Meanwhile, the world goes on.

Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain

are moving across the landscapes,

over the prairies and the deep trees,

the mountains and the rivers.

Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,

are heading home again.

Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,

the world offers itself to your imagination,

calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting–

over and over announcing your place

in the family of things.’

“Ode to ‘the Debrief” by Shnayjaah Jeanty

With access to reproductive rights and healthcare being one of the biggest political discussions of this election cycle, many women have been dealing with new forms of anxiety and stigmatization unlike anything we’ve faced before. The latest “trend” circulating among misogynists is “your body, my choice,” twisting the important phrase “my body, my choice” to show the true colors of what some men think of women: as nothing more than things they have the natural right to touch, use, and abuse.

So, I’d like to share the next piece to remind my fellow women of their history and worth. “Ode to ‘the Debrief,” written by my childhood friend and one of the most talented women I know, Shnayjaah Jeanty, speaks to the women of America. 

‘Giiiirrrllll. 

it always begins with Girl. 

then again, what hasn’t begun with Girl? 

do i have a story for you! 

we lean forward like my lace front 

after a 90-degree forecast. 

eric told me that anasofia 

told him that her roommate emily 

f*cked her best friend’s boyfriend last night. our jaws drop with our metal forks. 

stoooppp. 

you’re lyiiinnnggg. 

our words stretch 

their limbs in downward dog. 

asses out. in yoga pants. 

there are no men 

to stop and grab them mid 

air. 

we get to take our time here. 

emily. 

you mean rape apologist emily? 

b*tch, we already knew she wasn’t a girl’s girl. 

gossip is a man-made structure 

designed to barricade women 

from education and protection 

so instead, we rename it 

“the debrief.” 

we militarize it 

find your mother’s email with nothing 

but your Instagram handle and a can of Red Bull, how we warn each other of all the weapons that want us. This country only breeds its women to service it, and what is girlhood 

if not defense? 

if angry old white men can 

spill tea, why can’t we? 

we are revolting 

against their own

tyranny too. 

identifying a common 

enemy. 

we say can you believe this? 

we mean please believe me. 

we mean this is the first time 

i’ve spoken today without being second-guessed. 

our mamas and their mamas did it best. 

i’m only sayin’ this so i can pray for ‘em. 

now we just say 

i love her, but
 

when they weren’t allowed 

ballots, they voted with their mouths. 

men want a justice system they can bend and f*ck over and gossip says not if i f*ck you first. 

in the middle ages, a gossip 

was a phrase to define 

a close female friend 

until men casted her witch. 

our ancestors left us 

with a protection spell 

the quietest promise. 

the rest of our conversation 

is difficult to translate from Eye Contact 

to english: 

the moral of this story is i love you. 

i will never do this to you, 

Girl.’ 

Girl — without girls, what would society be? Women are creators of life, perpetuators of warmth and community. “Ode to ‘the Debrief’” communicates how we as women spread the word with one another because our fellow girls are our safe space. Who else would be there for us during our emotional journeys and scares, listen to every deep, dark secret we have, and hold us in times of fright?

Despite everything, women are always America’s afterthought. But this piece of literary art shows how, in one way or another, the whispered words of women have always been an integral part of our history, and that is what we will always have during our darkest times. 

Kamala Harris’ Concession Speech

On Nov. 6, Vice President Kamala Harris gave her concession speech to close out this election following her loss to President-elect Donald Trump. Throughout the 11 minutes, she discusses American politics, what distinguishes The United States as a democracy and not a tyranny, and why we must keep our heads up in the fight for life, liberty, and the pursuit of our happiness. But the adage she used to close out her speech caught my attention and gave many viewers hope.

In Harris’ speech, she states:

“There’s an adage a historian once called a law of history, true of every society across the ages. The adage is, only when it is dark enough can you see the stars. I know many people feel like we are entering a dark time, but for the benefit of us all, I hope that is not the case. But here’s the thing, America, if it is, let us fill the sky with the light of a brilliant, brilliant billion of stars. The light, the light of optimism, of faith, of truth and service. And may that work guide us even in the face of setbacks toward the extraordinary promise of the United States of America.”

With all of this in mind, I urge you to know and remember that this is not the end. If anything, this is only the beginning of a long road of hard work, dedication, and support. The United States of America was born out of a fight — it is up to the young people of America not to give up in the face of a new one. 

Lexani (she/her) is a sophomore at the University of Central Florida, pursuing a major in Psychology, a minor in Communication Sciences & Disorders, and a certificate in Behavioral Forensics. Raised and mentored by women of many diverse backgrounds her whole life, she strives to be a girls’ girl through and through! With roots in the alternative community, she’s always looking to connect with people who have diverse interests and passions while also giving those in her own subspaces recognition among the student population. When she’s not acting as a Staff Writer for Her Campus, you can find her tutoring children, studying the latest psychology research, or searching for new artists and albums to enjoy.