In todayâs world, our lives revolve around our phones, computers, TVs, iPads, and more. We as a society are addicted to our screens. A few years ago, it became a saying that only teenagers were addicted to their phones, with our family and older people calling us âscreenagers.âÂ
However, the issue has grown exponentially. After the pandemic, almost everyone became addicted to their screens. Adults love Facebook, teens love TikTok and we all know the discourse about âiPadâ kids.Â
It is exceedingly socially acceptable for people to spend hours on their phones these days, whether for work, school, fun, or just mindless scrolling. When people rack up 10 to 12 hours a day of screen time, no one bats an eye. The Center for Disease Control (CDC) revealed that âkids ages 8-18 now spend, on average, a whopping 7.5 hours in front of a screen for entertainment each day, 4.5 of which are spent watching TV. Over a year, that adds up to 114 full days watching a screen for fun.â This number does not even include the sheer amount of time kids use screens for school.Â
So much time is spent staring and scrolling on social media and television. Whatever happened to creativity?Â
According to Harvard Medical School, âThe growing human brain is constantly building neural connections while pruning away less-used ones, and digital media use plays an active role in that process, according to [Pediatrician Michael] Rich. Much of what happens on screen provides âimpoverishedâ stimulation of the developing brain compared to reality, he says. Children need a diverse menu of online and offline experiences, including the chance to let their minds wander. âBoredom is the space in which creativity and imagination happen,â [Rich] says.â
In this day and age, people no longer have a means to be bored. The moment there isnât anything to do, most people automatically pick up their phone; for some, itâs almost like a reflex. Why desire to create, to learn, to try something new when you can just turn off your brain and doom scroll on TikTok for three hours?Â
I genuinely believe that screen time, especially social media, has ruined our ability to be curious along with our innate need as humans to create. People need hobbies outside of work and school, hobbies that donât require pressure or gain. Having these hobbies replaces the need to be on our phones, and in turn enriches our brains. Your phone and your screens are controlling your life, and you donât even realize it.
Thereâs a phrase going around the Internet called âbrain rot.â While most use the term as a joke or for a funny meme, the word does hold quite a bit of weight to it. According to Newport Institute, âBrain rot is caused by excessive technology use. That might mean binge-watching videos on YouTube, scrolling social media, or switching back and forth between various browser tabs. On top of that, you might be simultaneously surfing the Internet, texting, and checking your email. The end result: Youâre overstimulating your brain.âÂ
There is so much going on in the world besides what is happening on your phone. At the end of the day, who cares what blush your favorite influencer likes best, or about the Reddit stories you listen to while some guy plays subway surfers? Youâre wasting your life away watching other people online have fun, instead of doing the things you enjoy.
Ultimately, Iâm not asking, Iâm not begging, I’m demanding that you get off your phone and actually enjoy your life. Go paint or draw. Listen to music and garden. Try a new recipe or visit a library. Talk to someone (please) and make plans. Itâs time to wake up and take control of your life, for no oneâs sake except your own.