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The Grave Digger: A poem about coping with heartbreak

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at UIC chapter.

THe Grave Digger

in the early morning hours of mid-fall,

my consciousness was scraped to life by the bleeding sun through my bare windows.

and as i peeled my eyes from sleep to the glimmer of dew 

on the grass outside, i saw you- gentle, pensive, 

twirling the morning air, through your breath, synchronized 

with that of the flowers and the birds. you looked 

as you did the first time, leaving me to remember you 

tangled in the white sheets- soft, vulnerable.

but i am aware now that things must always change.

i watched you from afar then. grasping the rusted shovel- still, listening

for the pattern of my breath. you waited for my exhale to

heave your shovel into the flesh of the earth, leaking 

a thick, dark red spill into the bed of the flowers and pouring dew

from its eyes. another blow 

left me void of breath- another, another. 

my body crumbled with the soil as you tossed me six feet deep. 

only feet apart, dipping chests, breathing the same light, 

yet miles from who we could have been. 

why must things always change?

you didn’t have to.  

you didn’t have to dig that final grave.

you didn’t have to allow them to 

crown you with that morbid title:

gravedigger.

but there you are, 

looking down at my mutilated spirit,

weak from the wrath of your tools and i am here, 

ready to harbor roots in my soul to grow flowers for you

as a reminder that never again 

will you strip me of my immortality. 

Madigan Mourning is a freshman at the University of Illinois at Chicago. She is majoring in Psychology and has a passion for behavioral research. Originally from Savannah, Georgia, Madigan is learning to maneuver her new life in the big city. She is constantly exploring ways to connect, communicate, and spread love to those around her. It's not always easy, but it is always an adventure.