Your friend asks you to be her wingwoman tonight, but you’ve never done that before. What exactly does that mean? Any girl who has ever been a wingwoman knows that if you want the night out to be a win for your friend, you have to know some basics of wingwomanry. Check out these tips to help you become the ultimate wingwoman!
Tonight is her night. In order for this to be a success, the first thing you need to realize is that tonight is not about you—it’s about your friend and finding her that perfect guy. Just get it in your mind that you are not the most important person tonight—she is. So whatever you do, do not steal the spotlight from her. Confidence is key. It’s essential that you, as the wingwoman, are confident in your abilities. Your friend asked you to be her wingwoman for a reason, which means she believes in your matchmaking skills. But, it is up to you to follow through for her.
Boy scouting. Now, it’s time to find her that lucky guy. In other words, it’s time for what I like to call “boy scouting.” Scope out the options and see who catches her eye. Does she like the tall, dark and handsome guy in the corner, or the blonde guy who’s the life of the party?
Get the ball rolling. It’s show time! Although you’re trying set up the guy with your friend, depending on if your friend is nervous or not, you can always get the conversation started if your friend is too shy to do it herself.
Talk her up. Make it clear to this guy that your friend is the best girl who’s walked in tonight. Keep the conversation going when needed, and chime in things about your friend when appropriate. For example, if the guy mentions his favorite scary movie, you could say something like, “I hate scary movies, but she always makes me watch them with her.” Just make sure you’re not too obvious or overly eager when talking up your friend.
Pay attention. It’s your job to make sure things go smoothly. That includes looking for signs that he’s into her and she’s into him. But, make sure you’re being inconspicuous.
Subtlety is crucial. You don’t want to make this look like an obvious setup or an act of desperation.
Time things right. If you can tell that they are hitting it off and your friend gives you the “okay” that she wants to stay and talk with him, slowly extricate yourself from the conversation. Then, you can go ahead and peace out for the night—but keep your phone with you in case your friend needs you!
Hopefully, you’ll find these tips helpful and you’ll be better prepared for when you’re called to action as a wingwoman for your best friend!