As a soon-to-be UNCW graduate, I am in a constant state of reflection on the past four years of my college life. At times, I feel that I am ready to start my next chapter. Other times, I realize how much I’ll miss all the perks of being a college student: interesting classes, an atmosphere filled with people my own age, the convenience of a meal plan, a gym within walking distance of my on-campus apartment…
I know that graduating college is a huge milestone. Preparing for that revolution has taught me what I can do to get the most out of my last semester, and it has also reminded me of another huge milestone—my transition to UNCW four years ago. The advice below reflects both the knowledge I wish I had taken to heart as a freshman and the knowledge that I have obtained from my own college experiences and from the wonderful advisors and peers I have met in my time here.   Â
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For Newcomers:
Don’t feel obliged to commit to a major right away. Even if you selected UNCW based on a certain academic program, realize that it is okay to make a change once you get here. It’s better to explore your interests during your early undergraduate years than to go through the stress of changing your major as an upperclassman. Many students feel pressured to commit to a major right away, but taking the time to ensure that you are happy in a chosen path can save you from extra semesters, financial burdens or unnecessary stress later on.
Establish relationships with your professors early on. Email has discouraged students from visiting their professors outside of class. While email is an efficient way to get questions answered, attending your professors’ office hours is a part of the college experience. Don’t feel uneasy or nervous about stopping in—most professors enjoy talking to their students and answering questions in person. The physical meeting will make you stand out amongst your peers, and attending office hours can help you get the most out of the class. Plus, forming a good relationship with a professor can provide you with a source for references or letters of recommendation that you may need in the future.Â
Explore the city. Take the time to learn about the Wilmington area. Explore the historic district and get lost in all the unique shops downtown. Visit the Cape Fear Serpentarium or drive to Carolina Beach for a change of scenery. Taking the time to learn about the city will make you feel more connected to UNCW.
Utilize the resources you are paying for. Make the most out of your time here by taking advantage of all the services our campus offers. A professor once told me that college is one of the only institutions where people try to get less than what they pay for. College is over-flowing with resources. From counseling and health services to career guidance and social programs, numerous “free” services are at your fingertips.Â
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For Old-timers:
Thank your professors, especially those who really impacted your years here. A handwritten thank you card is an easy and memorable way to show your professors how much you appreciate them. Thank you cards are also a great way to indicate to your professors that you would like to stay in touch with them after graduation.
Acknowledge your college friendships. Goodbyes can be awkward—don’t avoid them. With some of your friends, there is an unspoken understanding that you will stay in touch after graduation. For those friends and acquaintances with whom future contact is not so clear, take the time to express your feelings about leaving Wilmington and reflect on shared memories. After graduation, don’t be afraid to be the person who initiates future communication. Whether the friendship continues or not, you won’t be left confused or wondering whether you should have said goodbye.
Make graduation memorable. Invite family, friends or the people closest to you to share the memory. Attend your department’s ceremony and introduce your friends or family to important peers or faculty members. Let yourself walk across the stage and don’t be afraid to smile like a maniac. Graduation will be a big moment filled with a range of emotions. Embrace them.
Don’t deny yourself of new opportunities. Keep your options open as you start to network and apply for jobs and internships. Even an unpaid position can land you a job or give you the experience necessary to enter your desired field. Search for opportunities, and embrace any learning experiences that come your way. Each new experience can teach you and help you find what you’re looking for—in both your professional life and your personal life.Â