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(Or how I am dissatisfied with the way depression is handled). 

September, the month of where one is reminded to be alert on your fellow friends, students, or colleagues. I wonder sometimes how others feel when they are reminded of this. There is a unique type of irony for those of us that happen to be born in the month of September and suffer from depression. 

What a horrifying experience it was– unique and memorable. I remember that on September 16, 2018, I was hospitalized; then again on February 2020. The precisely unsettling thing about this date is the disconnect. People, well-meaning, tend to inevitably treat those that go through it as an “other”, an outsider. This mainly comes from the prevention videos where the proposed solution is to tell them it gets better, or be there for them, or any number of simple solutions. 

 I don’t believe they work on their own. As a survivor. I found that: 
 

 Empathy works best, or at least it has worked with me. It’s not necessarily about having people put themselves in my shoes, but rather having them understand that if I closed that door I would be dearly missed. As a fact. Beyond my feelings of what that perceived reality is. I searched for professional help, got to express my depression, and got some simple recommendations that would help me thrive again and feel, for a lack of a better term, alive. 
 
I felt alive for the first time in a long time as I made new friends. I did more things that meant I matter. While I can’t speak for everyone, holding on and weathering the storm helped me immensely. Seeking professional support and making great connections does help. 

     I cannot deny the privilege I have. And with that knowledge, I wished other people would seek to represent what this is and understand that it cannot be simply explained away with a magical plot device. This requires complexity, empathy, and love for those you care about. 

So, as this September closes to an end, I suppose my only real advice is…  

Look for help; not everything is lost, friend. 

And you, look out for your friend. Do it for them, okay? With empathy and love.

The newest trans writer of her campus UPRM Chapter writing about the experiences as trans woman and exposing the personal experiences of the trans life and documents and shines a light on trans issues on the campus and beyond. Marceline studies bachelors in Arts, works as Social media manager for the Association CINEMATHQUE, and project SIEMPREVIVAS as well working Community reach worker in the Student Association of Theory of Art, and as well as Student Association of the Artistic Workshop, and she is an active member in Amnesty international for her concern for human rights In her free time Marceline engages in poetry and brings forth her most artistic side and what she has learn her time in her Bachelors degree by creating traditional art pieces as well as graphic designs with special interest in Inkwork, her poetry focuses on the transgender experience and her own relationship with her body