This past Saturday, Â November 19th, marked 24 years since International Menâs Day (IMD) was inaugurated and observed for the first time. To date, it is observed by over 60 countries worldwide with the purpose of celebrating men and boys and their contribution to their communities, and also seeks to encourage gender equality, improve gender relations and highlight positive male role models. Ultimately, it seeks to bring awareness to different issues and discrimination that men face all over the world.
Every year, IMD emphasizes on a theme that men face around the world from positive male role models to giving boys the best possible start in life and 2016 is no different. This year, the IMD organization has decided to focus on suicide.
According to research done by Dan Bilkser and Jennifer White, writers of  âThe Silent Epidemic of Male Suicideâ, across the world (except in China and India) suicide is about 3 to 7.5 more likely to occur in men than in women. It is essential that we encourage our fellow men and boys to seek help.
Different media outlets around the word encourage men to seek help. Usually characterized as the more stoic gender, many men refuse to talk about their thoughts and feelings to others under pressure to maintain a more masculine image. Unfortunately, this desire to be less expressive can possibly lead to severe emotional conditions, namely depression which could lead to suicide.
Fortunately, we can do our part to make sure the men and boys in our lives are helped. From family communication, to the way men relate to their communities, it is essential that pathways for dialog are open and accessible. Being empathetic to their lives and experiences is key for developing constructive conversations and diagnosis. Public resources such as the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline have trained counselors prepared to help 24/7.
For more information about International Menâs Day and suicide, feel free to visit the following links:
http://www.bcmj.org/articles/silent-epidemic-male-suicide
http://www.internationalmensday.com/
http://www.healthyplace.com/suicide/suicide-hotline-what-happens-when-you-call/