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This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Utah chapter.

“Sex is the complete

Giving of 

YourSelf 

to another person?” 

Remember that? 

Remember those words? 

I do. 

 

So that’s what I am…

A product, 

With a price tag. 

A couple months, 

A few half-hearted compliments, 

A purchased dinner date, 

SOLD! 

I’m yours now. 

 

 

But the only thing I planned on giving you, 

Was my time, 

And maybe, just maybe 

My love. 

 

But instead, 

In your reality, 

I wrapped my tits, 

In pink lace packaging, 

and handed them over. 

Happy death of my autonomy! 

Love always, 

ME. 

 

 

Maybe they were right, 

Maybe I do need, 

The male gaze. 

A deep voice that reassures me, 

“Baby, you’re so f*cking hot.” 

 

And maybe I am just a body, 

Carrier of Sperm, 

And Fetus. 

A glorified mannequin, 

For a sequined push-up bra. 

 

And now here I am, 

On display. 

For other potential buyers, 

To rate on a scale, 

From 1, 

To hopefully 10. 

 

After all, 

It’s not my body anymore. 

Its YOURS. 

You claimed it, 

With a *flash*, 

And a “send tweet.” 

 

And the worst part of it all, 

I thought I followed all the rules. 

Good smile. 

Makes small talk with my mother, 

Over family dinners. 

LOVES ME? 

Check. 

VALUES ME? 

Check. 

TRUST? 

Check. 

 

But what I thought was trust, 

Was a transaction. 

One in which, 

I sold my sexuality, 

My privacy, 

My safety,

To YOU. 

 

Because it was never making love, 

It was making a fool out of me. 

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Her Campus Utah Chapter Contributor