How’d you first learn about sex? Sure we all received the generic sexual education spiel from our parents or in school– some of you from friends and the Internet. However, you’ve probably learned since then that there were some things you missed. Of course you know where babies come from and what’s in the other sex’s pants, but there is some vital information you might be missing out on. Just because you made it out of high school without a baby bump (or any other kind of bumps for that matter) doesn’t mean you should throw caution to the wind. Here’s some info on how to graduate STD and pregnancy free:
1) Condoms are not 100 percent effective.
Condoms can break sometimes without you even knowing. Each time after intercourse you should check the condom for tears and see if it contains semen. If it’s not in the condom that means it’s most likely in you which is a big no-no. If your condom has failed you, go to the nearest drugstore and ask for “Plan B.” It is an emergency contraceptive that prevents pregnancy up to 72 hours after unprotected sex. Another brand, Ella, can be taken up to five days after. In addition, make an appointment at Schiffert Health Center to get tested for sexually transmitted diseases. It’s better to be safe than sorry. Those little latex friends are still very important to use because they can protect us from STD’s and pregnancy when used correctly. Schiffert provides them to students without embarrassment and at a very low cost.
**Editor’s note: Schiffert also provides the morning after pill, and it’s usually less expensive than it would be at a local pharmacy**
2) It is possible to get the pill without parental consent.
If you have even the slightest inclining that you will be having sex in the near future, I urge you to go get on the pill. Don’t wait until you’re in the moment and things get hot and heavy. It’s always better to have a back-up plan-meaning condoms AND the pill. Schiffert offers prescriptions for oral contraceptives (also known as the pill). The only requirement is taking an online course, which takes about an hour, and a pelvic exam. Don’t feel like taking the course or the exam? Try making an appointment with Planned Parenthood. If you have insurance then you’re in luck, by 2012 birth control will be free. Regardless of your situation, I urge you to consult a health provider before making any decisions.
3) Oral sex can still hold risks for STD’s.
Of course bumps and rashes are the telltale signs of an STD, but just because his mini-me looks okay doesn’t mean you don’t need protection. Some diseases have no symptoms; diseases such as chlamydia, herpes, gonorrhea and HPV may not show any outward symptoms. If this is just a one-night fling or anything not monogamous, try using flavored condoms. Protection can be sexy with fun flavors like kiss-of-mint and banana-swirl. You can even order them online and with Christmas around the corner. Who wouldn’t want assorted flavored condoms? Yes, please!
So collegiettes, take responsibility for your health and don’t be afraid to speak up. Happy humping!
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Virginia Tech chapter.