Union Man Crush: Alphonso Ross

Alphonso Ross is a graduating senior, Criminal Justice major from the Bronx, NY. He is Mr. Virginia Union University, a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., and featured in the Virginia Union University president report magazine 2016 issue.

HC: What qualities do you look for in a girl?

AR: A down-to-earth, personality, good sense of humor, affectionate, gotta have morals, and just a humble girl overall.

HC: What do you wear in bed?

AR: Just boxers, rarely a shirt as well

HC: What do you think are your top three assets?

AR: I’m a gentleman, I’m humble, I’m compassionate, I’m funny, idk am I funny?

HC: What makes you nervous?

AR: Being unprepared

HC: What is a deal breaker in a relationship, and a must have?

AR: A deal breaker would be someone who doesn’t pay attention, or doesn’t have a good sense of humor. Or someone who’s extremely full of themself. A must have would be a woman with goals, they have to aspire to be something in life.

HC: What’s one thing that people don’t know about you?

AR: One thing that people don’t know about me is that I’m a shy person and I’m currently working on getting out of that habit.

HC: Name a fetish?

AR: A girl that smells good, I love perfume on a female.

HC: If given a chance, which female actress would you take away for the weekend?

AR: The weekend? Megan Good, baby baby.

HC: Define a sexy woman.

AR: A sexy woman is someone who is smart, not just book smart, street smart too. Someone independent, affectionate, hard working, and ambitious.

HC: What is your favorite body part on a woman and why?

AR: Eyes, I don’t know for some reason I like big eyes. It’s the first thing I look at when I see someone.

HC: Do girls who make the first move intimidate you?

AR: No, it’d be flattering actually if a female were to approach me. I’m usually too scared usually.

HC: Which is better to listen to your heart or your brain?

AR: I say listen to your heart first, and if it doesn’t go well, then listen to your brain.

HC: What are your three weaknesses?

AR: Being too kind, my bed I could really sleep the whole day away, and self- management, I tend to put other people and things before myself.

HC: How do let a girl know that you’re interested in her?

AR: I just ask to spend more time with her.

HC: What’s the longest relationship you’ve been in ?

AR: 5 years.

HC: Are you a romantic person?

AR: Yes, I always thought it was nice to make whomever you’re dealing with feel good, I just don’t see why not.

HC: Is breaking up really hard to do and why?

AR: No, because when you know your worth and compare it to your situation, it shouldn’t be that hard.

HC: What’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?

AR: A movie date, the girl was trying to kiss me in the middle of the movie, and I wasn’t having it. It was a miscommunication, but long story short, she got dubbed.

HC: In a relationship, are you a giver or receiver?

AR: It depends what we’re talking about winks but no I’m a receiver, like I take into consideration everything that’s brought to me, and I act accordingly.

HC: Have you ever experienced heartbreak if so what happened?

AR: Yeah, shawty played me. Long story short, she went away for college after graduation and I didn’t. Didn’t work out well. I got left in the cold.

HC: What is your preference a submissive or dominant female?

AR: I like a balance, but I would say I’m more dominant.

HC: Any advice for Union women?

AR: Don’t be the girl who needs a man, be the girl a man needs. 

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