Collegiettes, rush week is a blur. If you’re not careful, you may sink too far into the sisterhood-y sea of emotion and, well, end up drowning.
If you’re like me, you’re the kind of person who wants to know what lies ahead before it happens. That’s why I’m here to tell YOU what no one else will about rush week…
1. You will cry…if not because of your own sadness or joy, because everyone else around you is crying.
This is inevitable. Embrace it. BRING KLEENEX. You will need them and so will that girl with the last name that comes after you in your GRC group.
2. You will go to bed earlier than you did in middle school…and it’s totally okay.
Rush week is utterly exhausting! Long days spent on your feet chatting animatedly with girls you barely know will take a lot out of you. Don’t be ashamed to turn out the lights early (I’m talking like, 9). The more sleep you get, the more ready you’ll be to tackle the next day of rush.
3. Your breath becomes a lot more noticeable at close distances; as do beads of sweat, stray hairs, food lodged in your teeth, etc.
During rush, anything can spur a sudden anxiety attack. ESPECIALLY the thought of bad breath. Bring tons of mints with you to every party (not gum – it’s harder to get rid of). In fact, bring a purse with you. You will be able to leave it outside the party with your GRC.
Some essentials that should be stashed with the mints:
- Tampons
- Your cell phone (But make sure it is OFF or on SILENT)
- Granola BarS (That means 2+)
- Blotting paper or powder (It gets hot in the parties and you may find yourself sweating)
- FLOSS OR WISPS
- Mini deodorant or perfume sample
- Mini brush or hairspray
- Your good luck charm from 7th grade (Mine is an evil eye bracelet)
- Cough Drops
4. You will cave on your New Year’s resolution ‘diet’ on day 1 (sorry).
Rush is not the time to be on a diet. Long, strenuous hours combined with emotional stress = a chocolate field day. Don’t think twice about ordering a feast from Elizabeth’s with the girls on your hall. You need to fortify yourself! Believe it or not, girls have passed out at parties from not eating enough during the week.
5. You don’t have to talk to anyone…about anything.
Rush is a very private and individual time. You will be exploring new aspects of yourself. Remember: you are the one who will be spending four years with these girls, so make sure YOU like them. You don’t have to justify your decision to anyone – not even your best friend, roommate or parents. Don’t let others opinions affect what is best for you.
6. You will live.
Whether you get into a sorority or not. And you might even have fun along the way.
Best of luck, collegiettes!