Being a senior in college is arguably one of the most difficult jobs Iâve ever taken on. In between research papers, studying for tests and juggling an internship, itâs nearly impossible to think about graduation and entering the âreal world.â
Some days, I have it all together. Most days, I have more questions than answers. Few, select days I fall apart.
I was at work, hurriedly completing my tasks before I had to dash out and catch the bus back to campus where I would try to fit in a snack before a meeting with my mentor. I was bone-tired: kept awake the night before with a running mental list of to-dos that I couldnât seem to escape from. Not even a Nitro Cold Brew from Starbucks could wake me up this morning.
Iâm not sure what it wasâfive new emails regarding upcoming career fairs, an exploding group chat between my friends about Halloween plans, or maybe the realization that I had more assignments due than time to complete themâbut I cracked. Staring at my computer screen trying to hold back tears, I couldnât push my anxious feelings to the back of my mind this time.
I left my desk, called my mom and let it all out. All of my fears tumbled out of my mouthâthe ones I had been suppressing for months. I was overwhelmed and the weight of it all finally made me cave and admit how much I was struggling.
âI have no idea what I am supposed to do. Everyone keeps asking me âwhat do you want to do when you graduate?â and I am so tired of not having an answer. Everything feels like a vast, dark space before me and the pressure to fill it with the ârightâ job and ârightâ choices is becoming too much.â
She listened to me vent and ,in the way that only mothers can, she made me feel like everything might just turn out okay. Just might.
While itâs not popular to express uncertainty or fear about our futures, sometimes we need to take off the mask of positivity and let real bravery take itâs place: sitting with the discomfort and letting it wash over you full force. Cry, take the afternoon off to watch a movie, or call your mom. Remind yourself that once youâve collected your inner strength you can and will pick yourself up again.
This is a reassurance to you, fellow senior, that if you also feel this way you are not alone. Building a future is scary. For the last few years our university setting has provided a safe enclosure and now that the gates are finally opening itâs both thrilling and completely consuming.  We arenât going to find the answers tomorrowâwe may never find them. However, I hope you are kind to yourself. I hope the knowledge that you are not alone, despite the masks your peers put on, is enough to carry you through this last year.
Because what it coming just around the corner will be nothing less than a great adventure.