It’s that fabulously dreaded time of year that is formal season. You might have just winced when I said that or maybe you jumped for joy, but if you’re panicking about your next formal…follow these tips to have a great and stress-free night.
1. Don’t stress about a date. Yes, social chairs seem evil when they mention the word “date,” but if you’re really that upset about finding someone to take to formal, you’re overestimating what this night really is. This is formal, not your wedding. So take someone you can see yourself spending the night with and stop pretending like it’s the rest of your life.
2. Bring someone you’re comfortable with. After all, this night is about being with your friends. You don’t need a boyfriend or any type of significant other, it doesn’t matter if they ask you back to their formal, and do not ask that cute boy in class that your friends are pushing you to ask…unless YOU want to. Bringing a friend is totally acceptable and will probably lead to a better night.
3. Wear something you’re comfortable in. I know it’s just one night, but even a couple of hours in high heels and a tight dress could be miserable. Forget about the Spanx because you probably don’t need them and wear whatever you feel most naturally beautiful in. When it comes down to it, your stilettos wouldn’t lend much help for dancing anyway.
4. Give yourself plenty of time to get ready. Because being rushed sucks. Regardless of how you actually look after throwing yourself together in 10 minutes, you won’t feel your best. Spend the time to make your night the great one you want it to be.
5. Drink responsibly. What’s the point in going to formal if you end up getting sick and ruining it for everyone else? Not only do you want to remember your night, but you also want your sorority to be allowed back in that venue. So don’t be that person.
6. Make sure you make it to the photo booth. Photo booths create the coolest memories, and they’re super fun. Whether you take a picture with your date or your friends, it’s always fun to document the night when you know you’re looking good.
7. Take group pictures. There are only so many nights that every one of your friends is together, so take advantage of it. Formal pictures are probably better to show to the family than the ones from a frat party anyway.
8. Try the food. Free food is just an added bonus to the perks of formal, and sometimes it’s really good. Because you’re classy tonight, skip the Dominos and try some delicious mozzarella sticks instead.
9. Pay attention to when busses are leaving. The timing of formal busses can suck, but so can your 20-minute wait for a cab. And if you’re with some of the last people left at the venue, they’ll probably kick you out soon. Make your life easier by avoiding surge fees and people stealing your cab, and just take the bus.
10. Thank your date. Even if you didn’t have a great night. We’re all adults here and can handle being polite, so reach out to your date and thank him or her for coming. Believe me, they didn’t have to show up.
When it comes down to it, formal is not a big deal. Take it for the opportunity that it is to look nice, be with your friends and have a good time.