So it’s Valentine’s Day, you’ve finally found someone, and you’re ready to have a fantastic time together. But there’s just this one issue – you’re at one of those stages where you have no clue what kind of date would be appropriate. Not to worry, here are a list of ideas that will be fun and comfortable for the two of you, not matter if you just started seein each other, or if you’ve been dating for years.
1. It’s really just a fling.Valentine’s Day can be awkward when you’re with someone, but not completely committed to them. Since the 14th falls on a Friday this year, go out to a party together or do your usual weekend routine without adding any romantic embellishments. If the two of you are set on not committing, but aren’t ready for your fling to end, trying to do something special for Valentine’s Day will introduce possibilities that overstep your boundaries and will most likely end your relationship prematurely.
2. We’ve been dating for a few weeks and it’s going fine, but not spectacular.If you’re unsure of your feelings for each other, a simple dinner date could be a good opportunity to converse openly and figure out whether you want to continue pursuing the relationship. Don’t go for anything too fancy, which would suggest that you’re willing to take things to a more serious level. Try heading over to New Town and getting some sushi or burgers together.
3. It’s not going too well. I might want to break it off.Valentine’s Day can come at the worst possible moment in your relationship. If you’re completely set on the idea of breaking up, do it before Valentine’s Day. You’ll want to avoid the awkward confrontation that will inevitably occur soon after your significant other drowns you in flowers. If you still need to think about it, make it clear that you don’t want to do anything special for the holiday. You can still spend time together, of course, but the last thing you should do is give them the idea that the relationship is going somewhere it’s not.
4. We went on our first date a few days ago and it went well.For those of you whose hearts are fluttering in mutual “like” yet you are so not ready to declare an official relationship, make it clear that you aren’t obliged to get each other presents. However, Valentine’s Day can give you an opportunity to get to know each other even more and continue progressing on this positive note. Simply walking around CW, holding hands, looking at all of the houses and animals, and then grabbing a coffee at Aroma’s is a super romantic way to spend an entire afternoon (trust me, this is how most of my friends’ relationships have started).
5. We’ve been dating for a month or so now, and it’s been perfect.Congratulations on finding someone you really enjoy being with! This is the point at which it’s safe to have an quintessential Valentine’s date: flowers, chocolate, and a romantic night. You could go for the traditional dinner date (maybe somewhere comfortable like Sal’s or Food For Thought) or you could go to the Global Film Festival together at the Kimball Theatre – a classy way to celebrate your growing relationship!
6. We’ve been together for a few years and are absolutely in love.You’ve probably spent several Valentine’s Days together by this point, and you’re looking for something new, unique, and romantic to do. Williamsburg provides limited opportunities, so why not make it truly a weekend to remember and take a road trip together to one of Virginia’s many awesome romantic sites? The Shenandoah Valley offers a gorgeous mountainous setting for a romantic weekend, especially if you’re the outdoorsy type. Charlottesville is also a gorgeous city with several nearby historical sites, including Monticello. Perfect for those TWAMPs who are historically inclined!
7. We love each other a ton, but we’re just not the romantic type.What I’m about to tell you is very important, so listen closely: Qdoba will give you a free entrée with the purchase of another if you kiss each other at the counter. And that is all you could really ever need.
Happy Valentine’s Day from Her Campus: William & Mary!