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The Stages Of Dealing With The End Of Cuffing Season

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at WVU chapter.

Alright, ladies, it’s time. You knew this was coming, and now that the weather’s getting warmer, it’s unavoidable. Cuffing season is coming to an end.

Now, before you start a riot on High Streets during your panic session, keep in mind that this was inevitable. You’re not the only one going through this, so take a moment to look over the stages you’re about to experience.

Stage 1: Denial.

“What are you talking about? Me and [insert boy toy’s name here] are fine. We’re staying together, you’ll see.” News flash, honey, you’re only together for the sex. It may seem like there’s a relationship in there, but your late night cuddle sessions aren’t meant for affection.

Stage 2: Hope.

“Maybe we’re different. We’re the exception.” These thoughts might last an hour or a week, but the moment you go out for girl’s night and that insanely hot guy buys you a drink, you’ll forget all about that boy keeping your bed warm.

Stage 3: Acceptance.

Finally. No more arguing or staring at me with those big, heart shaped eyes that blinded you for the first two stages.  Now you understand and have embraced the truth. But it doesn’t end there, because now you have move on to the next stage…

Stage 4: Worry.

You’re almost there, but now you have to find a way to break your chains. While you might have escaped from your cuff, that doesn’t mean that he has. It’s time for that awkward conversation, let’s hope he’s not too attached…

Stage 5: Freedom.

YOU’VE MADE IT! It may have been a struggle, but you’re now free to do whatever (or whoever) you want. Just try to avoid those drunk calls at 3 a.m. telling him how much you miss your cuffing partner, alright?

 

A junior at West Virginia University, Erin is majoring in Journalism (emphasis on Print) and working to achieve a minor in Creative Writing. Erin is currently the president of the Alpha Pi chapter of the national service sorority, Omega Phi Alpha, and is a member of the Alpha Pledge class. She plans to pursue a career in journalism and focus on arts & entertainment.
  I grew up in Charleston, West Virginia. Growing up here I knew there was a possibility of going to West Virginia University my entire life. Although I decided to start my college career at the University of Kentucky, those country roads led me back to WVU in the spring of my sophomore year. This was also the point when I decided to establish myself as a Broadcast Journalist student. Since this point I have strived to become the best possible journalist I can be. I am currently working as a weekend reporter for WDTV-Channel 5 in Clarksburg, West Virginia. Prior to receiving this position, I worked as an intern with WCHS-tv/FOX11, in the summer of 2014, where I learned critical editing, interviewing, writing, and speaking skills. I worked closely with anchors, reporters, editors, directors, producers, and even the web team. Aside from the television industry, I am the Campus Correspondent for the West Virginia University Chapter of the online entertainment magazine, Her Campus. Another position I currently hold is the Social Media Chair of WVU’s Radio Television Digital News Association Chapter. In the Fall of 2012, I became a sister of the Alpha Phi Fraternity, in which I held the position of ‘Big Sister Chairman.’ My other passions include horse back riding, scuba diving, being outdoors, and running. I am very adventurous and I try to stay well rounded. My goal in life is to live life to the fullest and be the best possible version of myself. My ultimate goal would be to earn a spot as a reporter/anchor for Fox News, New York. I plan to graduate in December of 2016 and look forward to my future.