Spice Up A Game Of Truth Or Dare With These Flirty Questions

In relationships, when your partner is playing games, it isn’t exactly a green flag. Playing hard to get, seeing other people, not responding as much — all of these things make us go crazy. But what if I told you playing games can actually be a great thing?

When a new relationship begins to bud, we want to find ways to get to know our partner better and have deeper conversations, and it’s not always simple to navigate those conversations. Whether it’s a new relationship or one that has lasted a while, there isn’t really a guide to deep conversations — unless it’s a game like truth or dare. This classic game can be a guide to asking deep questions, bonding, and laughing, which will ultimately help you and your partner connect more. It’s easy to play this game over text, but even better if you play while on a date, or even Netflix and chillin’. Either way, flirty truth-or-dare questions are sure to take things to the next level.

Whether you’ve been together for a long time, or are just getting to know someone, asking a flirty question (or daring a spicy dare) can help you connect to someone on a deeper level. Maybe it’ll lead to a deep conversation, a budding relationship, or maybe a spontaneous, spicy romp. No matter where it takes you, get ready: It’s about to get hot in here!

Truth: If you could take a day off of work/school and spend it with me, what would we do together?

This one is fun and your partner can be as creative (and flirty) as they want… 

Dare: I dare you to take off one piece of your clothing, it can be any piece you so please. 

As simple as a shoe, or as flirty as a top, this dare is as spicy as you make it. 

Truth: What is your favorite quality of mine?

I love asking this one because it gets into a deeper conversation about your favorite qualities of one another, and can be really vulnerable and touching to talk about. 

Dare: I dare you to eat a popsicle as seductively as you can.

This one definitely brings laughter and seduction. 

Truth: What was your first impression of me?

Asking this helps guide you both to a deeper conversation while having a fun time reminiscing on when you first met. 

Dare: Eat your next meal in only your underwear. 

It’s possible you will be together during that next meal… this one brings the heat. 

Truth: What color underwear are you wearing right now?

This question is always a playful yet spicy one. Simple yet effective. 

Dare: You have five minutes. Write a love poem to me. 

I love this one. It’s cute and quick but can be really sweet and meaningful. 

Truth: Have you been in love before?

Asking this is definitely risky, but it allows you to get to know each other a lot better and talk about all things love. 

Dare: Kiss your favorite part of my body.

All I have to say about this one is… spicy. 

Truth: What’s your biggest red flag?

This question brings up the things we see in ourselves that we’d like to improve, and talking about it shows you are aware and hopefully working on it. It can help in the future to know each other’s red flags. 

Dare: Give me a foot massage. 

This can get as flirty as you want while also getting a great massage in.

Truth: When was your first kiss?

A question that is usually playful yet you can really get to know each other deeper by talking about this. 

Dare: Send an Instagram DM to your celebrity crush.

This can get real interesting, real quick.

Truth: What’s your favorite sex position?

This a classic question that can be really spicy if you talk more about it. Either way, it’s a fun and flirty question. 

Dare: Freestyle rap about me.

This would be funny and can be cute, too.

Truth: Would you rather give up cuddling or sex?

This question can get interesting, and maybe even be a transition into some action. 

Dare: Buy me a shirt that you want me to wear to our next date.

Hopefully, your partner knows you well enough to buy you something you’d like, but even more importantly, it is something they love you in.

Truth: What are your thoughts on open relationships?

This can get deep real quick, and can lead you both to a deeper discussion of what you believe your relationship should look like. 

Dare: Tell me your best pickup line.

This dare is funny but can be spicy, too, especially if it works.

Truth: Do you prefer giving or receiving

Asking this question definitely leads to some more meaningful conversations, and can guide you to understanding your partner on a deeper level. It also can get as flirty as you want it to get… 

Dare: Give me a lap dance for one minute.

A playful and flirty dare that brings laughter for sure.

Truth: What outfit of mine do I look sexiest in?

Praise kink girls, rise.

Dare: Show me your best orgasm face.

Might be all laughter, might be all the spice.

Truth: What is your favorite thing I do in bed?

A spicy one that is also very helpful and informative. 

Dare: Read An ingredients list in your most seductive voice.

Try this funny dare with your crush or partner, I promise it’ll bring laughter.

Truth: What is your biggest turn-off?

This is super helpful in getting to know each other on another level. 

Dare: Take the most seductive selfie and I will put it as my contact photo for you.

The perfect way to get a good contact photo.

Truth: What is your biggest fear about our relationship?

This opens up the floor for some deep conversations and might be a lot to talk about, but is helpful in the long run. 

Dare: Plan a date for us right now for us to go on this weekend.

The perfect way to plan a fun date for the future.

Truth: Have you had fantasies about me?

Straight to the point and has the potential to make things spicy AF. 

Dare: Send me a spicy text message only using emojis.

If this text didn’t make you blush, they did it wrong. 

Truth: Who’s your celebrity hall pass?

A playful question that’s always a fun way to get to know someone better. 

Dare: Text Me a really dirty joke.

Spice.

Truth: If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?

This question is vulnerable and can lead to interesting conversations about each other. 

Dare: I dare you to make out with your stuffed animal.

This dare is just too funny.

Truth: What’s the worst/ most awkward date you’ve been on?

Back to a more playful question, this one is always fun to talk about. 

Dare: Talk in an English accent until your next turn.

This one can be flirty and funny… it’s important to know whether your partner has a good English accent or not!

Truth: Who is the better kisser — me or you?

Test the theory afterward.

Dare: Show me your last Google search.

No search history-clearing allowed!

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