Being laid off is something that we all fear and hope weâll never experience (if we havenât already). Weâre working our hours as scheduled, putting in the work, and making things happen â but for some reason, layoff anxiety is always prevalent in the working world. In every job Iâve ever had, Iâve feared being laid off: It doesnât matter that my boss has told me Iâm âdoing a great jobâ or âimportant to the company,” Iâm still terrified â I even have nightmares about it.Â
However, in our careers, that severe anxiety will get us nowhere. Iâve pondered and researched miracle cures for my anxiety, especially when it comes to work, my whole life: Iâve tried everything from vitamins to affirmations in my car rearview mirror. I feel though that until we understand what the cause of our layoff anxiety is, weâll never get better. I want to be able to confidently walk into my job one day and own it without the fear of being laid off, so I asked myself, where do I start?Â
But, itâs easier said than done to just get rid of layoff anxiety. So I talked to Dr. David Tzall, licensed psychologist, about overwhelming layoff anxiety: what is it, who has it, what is it good for, and, most importantly, what can someone do about it.Â
Layoff anxiety doesnât target one age group.
Believe it or not, thereâs no general age range that suffers the most from layoff-related anxiety â with nearly half of the U.S. workforce experiencing daily, itâs something that impacts everyone differently based on their jobâs environment, past experiences, and a ton of other factors.Â
âEveryone is different in how they react to stress; you donât even have to be a diagnosed anxious person to react strongly to stress,â Tzall tells Her Campus.Â
Additionally, Tzall tells Her Campus that younger people without a lot of job experience tend to have much less confidence in their field, and when ârumors of layoffsâ come around, they panic. And, on the flip side, older folks may reflect on their past experiences (and traumas) with layoffs when rumors come about, which can cause anxiety and stress for their job security.
âWhen people, especially younger people, feel inexperienced, they tend to doubt themselves and their work much more than someone who has been in the business for a while,â Tzall says. âLayoff rumors may also affect older people who have been in the business for a much longer time because of stereotypes, like older workers being more âexpensive.ââ
But, layoff anxiety targets everyone â however, people with heightened anxiety may feel its effects a bit more than others. âOne [anxiety-inducing instance] is an email from your boss saying âCan we meet?ââ Tzall explains. âAn anxious personâs mind goes to the negative⊠no one wants to be put in the spotlight.âÂ
There are ways you can combat it.
I mentioned to Dr. Tzall that I sometimes dream of being laid off, so, of course, I asked him how to make it stop â because Iâm sure itâs not a unique experience. âIt is normal to dream about anxieties when your mind is not being as active, like when youâre trying to sleep or asleep,â Tzall says. âYou have to deal with stress while awake and head-on in order to stop dreaming about it.â
In order to face it âhead-on,â a person concerned about being laid off can do a couple of things to alleviate their worries: give themselves an honest evaluation or talk to a manager.Â
Tzall says that by giving oneself an honest evaluation, you can sometimes reassure yourself that youâre safe from the chopping block. He says to ask questions like, âAre you a good worker?â, âHave you been reprimanded before?â, and âIs this really something I should fear?â Usually, these questions have you taking a deep breath and realizing youâre not a candidate worthy of being laid off.Â
âAnxiety happens when we don’t have a lot of information about a specific instance,â Tzall explains. âThreats scare us.â Talk to your supervisor or manager if youâre feeling concerned. We have to learn how to confront fears to help tame anxiety.Â
Tzall calls it a âfight or flightâ against anxiety. He says, âIf you are writing a paper or studying for a big test, you generally have anxiety. A âfightâ response would be to write a top-notch paper or study hard for the exam to alleviate anxiety. A âflightâ response would be to procrastinate or shut down against the fear.â
Believe it or not, you can use layoff anxiety to your advantage.
Despite it all, layoffs anxiety isnât as detrimental as we believe. If anything, experiencing this form of anxiety can be a motivator for employees to work harder and prove their spot to higher-ups. According to Tzall, âIf we donât have any work anxiety, weâll just kick our feet up on our desks and not do anything.â A lack of anxiety equals a lack of motivation â but too much anxiety causes us to shut down and get nothing done. Having limited, lingering anxiety is a natural thing; we donât want to get rid of it, only manage it. Of course, if the stress is taking over your head, and harming your mental health, seek the guidance of a professional.
All in all, layoff-related anxiety is something everyone in the workforce has experienced, or will at some point in time. Everyone is susceptible to it, everyone has it, so why make it such a taboo subject? Be open with your friends, work besties, and therapists about this anxiety â chances are, theyâve felt the exact same thing. Youâre not alone, here!
If you or someone you know is seeking help for mental health concerns, visit the National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) website, or call 1-800-950-NAMI(6264). For confidential treatment referrals, visit the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) website, or call the National Helpline at 1-800-662-HELP(4357). In an emergency, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK(8255) or call 911.