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Little Things That Make You Feel Like You’ve Got It Together

This article has been syndicated to Her Campus from The PDX Belle by May McNeil, an InfluenceHer Collective member. Read the full post here.


Maybe your space is super messy, you’re cutting it close on a deadline, or just don’t know what tomorrow might hold—one of those days … Lately I’ve had a good handful of those.

It’s okay to admit that life is not always as perfect as it looks on Instagram, but there are a few (super easy) ways to adjust your mindset and trick yourself into believing that yes, you’ve got it together, and you’re totally killing it.

  1. Set your iPhone and laptop backgrounds to something pretty and uplifting. Random, but it just calms me down. Try it out!
  2. Sweat. Go for a brisk walk. Hit the gym. Do an ab routine on your floor—whatever it takes to get your blood flowing and remind yourself that you are strong, amazing and in control. 
  3. Get organized. Start small. Make a list in your planner of achievable tasks: making your bed, folding a few items of clothing, and answering a couple emails. Write them down in a pretty colored pen, in neat handwriting, and check them off as you complete them. It’s the little things!
  4. Put yourself together. Sweats or yoga pants are not going to make you feel invincible, but your favorite pair of jeans and new booties might help!
  5. Call your mom. Or a friend who you know will lift you up, or someone who is good at positive reinforcement and can help you get back on the right track. 

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Alice is the Senior Associate Editor at Her Campus. She graduated from Emory University in 2012 as an English major and a Dance minor. Before joining Her Campus, she was an associate editor at Lucky Magazine. She is currently located in Salt Lake City, UT, where she spends her free time rescuing orphaned kittens, whose lives are documented on Instagram at @thekittensquad! You can find her on Twitter and Instagram at @alicefchen.