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The holiday season is here, bestie! Now, it’s time to cozy up in your favorite sweater, grab your laptop, and get on the hunt for some holiday shopping. And even though Black Friday has ended, these next few weeks are full of great sales and amazing deals to make your holiday shopping list just a little bit easier. (Just don’t let me look at my credit card statement — ignorance is bliss.)
However, with Santa Claus coming to town, I know that I’ve been up late wondering about my position on the whole “naughty or nice” list. Given that I write about the sexier things in life for a living, I’d say that my name is leaning more toward “naughty” than “nice”. But I’m not worried about that — I’ve decided to spread my naughty energy to spice up the holidays for my besties and partner. Santa Claus, who?
Whether you’re cuffed or staying solo this holiday season, it’s always important to give the gift of pleasure. And what better way to spread the love (wink) than including a few naughty sex-positive stocking stuffers in your holiday shopping? These ‘lil gifts are perfect to give to your sex-positive besties, your partner, or even just to keep for yourself. Additionally, you can buy one of these babies to use for your next White Elephant Holiday party — you’re welcome, BTW.
- Jouissance Club Necklace
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As a jewelry girl, I can’t wait to layer this cheeky necklace (Biird, $15) with my everyday pieces.
- “You’re Perfect” Shoulder Tote
- FRUITY VAGINAS PATTERN COFFEE MUG
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For your sex-positive bestie (group chat, if you’re reading this…), this LookHUMAN mug (LookHUMAN, $19) is so cute and so cheeky. I’m obsessed.
- Rabbit Bullet Vibrator
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This rabbit vibe (Amazon, $14) is two toys for the price of one. Plus, it’s super cute.
One user wrote that this “little toy goes a long way”, and I believe them!
- Namii Clitoral Suction Stimulator
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Give the gift of pleasure with this clitoral stimulator (Biird, $119). Your bestie, partner, or future self will thank you.
- “I’m Worthy of Pleasure” Tote
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This tote (Bonfire, $27) is perfect for your cheeky friend. Bonus points: purchase proceeds go to the Masakhane Center, which provides sex-ed programming in and around Newark, NJ.
- “I’m Worthy Of Pleasure” Mug
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If shirts aren’t your thing, maybe mugs (Bonfire, $19) are.
- Bomb Balm Arousal Balm™
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Give the gift of this arousal balm (Lovability, $24) to your besties, partner(s), or yourself. It’s always a winner.
- “Every Body Deserves Pleasure” Tee Shirt
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Buying this tee (Bonfire, $28) for myself ASAP.
- Alien Ball Gag Pin
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This enamel pin (Unbound Babes, $10) is perfect for your friends who are exploring their kinky sides.
- Behind Closed Doors 4 Kinky Sex Dice Game
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These sex dice (Sara’s Secret, $10) are the perfect gift for not only your partner, but for you as well.
- Date Night Lubricant
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This lube (Playground, $25) is subtly scented with Champagne and vanilla for a sexy night alone or with a partner(s).
- Sex Positive: Redefining Our Attitudes to Love & Sex By Dr. Kelly Neff
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This book (Amazon, $19) was made for your sex-positive bestie.
- Fuzzy Handcuffs
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In 2023, these handcuffs (Amazon, $10) are an essential in the bedroom. Plus, they’re a great gift.
- “Position Of The Day” Playbook
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This book (Amazon, $20) is perfect for your cheeky friends out there.
- Jolt Gel
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Tingly arousal gel (Unbound Babes, $24) will make your O even bigger.
- Satisfyer One Night Stand Air Pulse Simulator
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Disposable vibrators make for the perfect stocking stuffer, and this clitoral stimulator (Pink Cherry, $12) is probably the best gift ever. A user even wrote, “I LOVE this product so much that I bought 6 more.”
- Cliit Socks
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These clitoris socks (Biird, $10) are perfect for a White Elephant gift. Or like, to wear every day.
- Sustain Condoms
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Put the health center condoms down, bestie! These condoms (Grove Collaborative, $4) are natural and vagina-safe, which you probably didn’t even know was a thing.
- ThreePlay® Massage Candle
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This candle (Lovability, $14) keeps the bedroom spicy… and smelling fresh.
- BJ Blast
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This bad girl BJ Blast (Pink Cherry, $2) takes blow jobs to the next level. Trust me.
- “Sex Toys Are Better Than Boys” Shirt
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What the shirt (Etsy, $35) said.
- Posh Silicone Finger Swirls
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These finger toys (Pink Cherry, $9) are the perfect stocking stuffer. Plus, they’re super cute.
- “Ring For Sex” Keychain Bell
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I definitely need this bell (Francesca’s, $5) for myself.
- Moregasm Mist™
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This aromatic aphrodisiac (Lovability, $12) sets the mood with just a spritz. BRB, straying this everywhere.
- Smile Makers Vibrator
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This personal massager (Ulta, $34) is the perfect gift for your sex-positive bestie — and grab one for yourself, too.
- Vesper Vibrator Necklace
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I love that this necklace (Ulta, $69) doubles as a sex toy. “Perfect for travel,” one user wrote. “Very powerful vibrations with 4 different settings!”
- Flavored Dental Dams
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These dental dams (Undercover Condoms, $12) come in super cute packaging and spearmint, grape, strawberry, and vanilla flavors.
- Lovability Condoms
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I’m obsessed with these condoms (Lovability, $9): not only are they natural, but they come in the cutest little tin, so you can carry your protection in style.
- Intimate Earth All Natural Foaming Toy Cleaner
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This is your reminder to clean your sex toys. This toy cleaner (Cirilla’s, $19) makes for a fantastic stocking stuffer and a bedside drawer essential.
- Vibrating C-Ring
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This C-ring (Lovehoney, $20) is perfect to use with a partner, so it’s definitely a great choice for a stocking stuffer.
- Go F*k Card Game
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This cheeky card game (Lovers, $7) makes for the perfect stocking stuffer. One user wrote, “We played round after round and tried out new positions we had no idea about”. That’s enough to make me add this to my cart, TBH.
- Evii Vibrator
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This vibe (Biird, $89) is the sex toy of my dreams. You, your bestie, or your partner are sure to love it just as much as I do.
- Vibrator Bookmark
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You can use this bookmark (Etsy, $6) to hold the pages of your latest romance novel.
- Clitoris Earrings
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These clitoris earrings (Biird, $15) are so dainty and chic, but it’s still not an excuse for your hookup’s inability to find it. Oops, did I say that out loud?
- Lesbian Sex! Card Game
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To my LGBTQ+ babes, this card game (Lovers, $6) was made for your pleasure.
- “Pillow Princess” Shirt
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I think about this shirt (Etsy, $22) daily.
- Girl Power Socks
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On your feet, these socks (Exit 9, $16) look normal. It’s the packaging that makes things real cheeky.
- Naughty Scratch-Off Game
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These scratch-offs (Amazon, $10) are the only lottery tickets I want in my stocking this year.
- Yoni Ring
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Wear your feminine power on your hand with this vulva ring (Etsy, $33). Bonus points if you get your bestie one to match.