This Is Your Sign To Get Bold Over Text With These Spicy Truth Or Dare Questions

Call me a middle schooler, but a good game of Truth Or Dare is my preferred method of flirting — at least in the beginning stages of a relationship. I know, I know, I’m almost a college graduate, but there is some sort of insane courage I get being able to ask spicy Truth Or Dare questions within the safety of a game — especially when I’m texting a crush. 

All jokes aside, this can be a great way to get to know someone better and in a fun way. From my experience playing this game, often some of the truth questions lead to deeper conversations that go on for hours. And, in the end, I feel like I’ve learned something I never would have if we had just been talking normally. As for the dares,  I have so many fond memories that make me giggle from the silly things I’ve done or dared others to do. I’m telling you, it’s a classic game for a reason!

Also, BFFR, this game is a lifesaver if you want to spice things up with a crush over text,  because the “how was your day” texts get boring real quick. So, whether you’re trying to keep the night going after a date or the spark alive over the holiday break, here are some cute, flirty, and, of course, steamy Truth Or Dare prompts to play with your crush.

Truth: What’s your ideal first date? 

Let’s start off nice and easy. 

Dare: Text me a fantasy of yours. 

I mean it might be good info to know…

Truth: What’s your favorite feature of mine? 

A surefire way to make you blush. 

Dare: Hard launch me on your story.

Your DMs are about to be flooded. 

Truth: Describe your perfect kiss.

Flirty and informational, this question has it all. 

Dare: Text me your best pick-up line. 

Test out their rizz. 

Truth: Have you ever had a dream about me? 

This could be cute or the start of something else…either way you’re winning. 

Dare: Take me on a date. 

Be bold, bestie!

Truth: What’s the boldest thing you’ve ever done to impress someone? 

This totally gives you some insight into what might be to come.

Dare: Text your BFF something explicit and say “oops wrong person.” 

There’s a reason my mom calls me a drama queen. 

Truth: What are you wearing right now?

Listen, cliches aren’t bad. 

Dare: Send me a voice memo of you saying something flirty.

Does anyone else melt when they hear their crush’s voice… just me? 

Truth: What are your thoughts on foreplay?

Follow-up question: What’s your favorite type of foreplay?

Dare: Text me a love poem.

For my hopeless romantics.

Truth: Do you have any scandalous tattoo(s)? 

The perfect lead-in question.

Dare: Show me your scandalous tattoo(s).

IDK about you, but seeing is believing. 

Truth: Do you have any fetishes?

Is it getting hot in here?

Dare: Change your lock screen to a picture of us for 24 hours

Bestie, I’m gushing for you.

Truth: Where is the riskiest place you’ve done it?

See if they’re as freaky as you!

Dare: Kiss me the next time you see me. 

Let’s cut to the chase here…

Truth: What was your first impression of me?

If you wanna get hot and heavy, but in the emotional kind of way.  

Dare: Text me a dirty joke. 

Hey Siri, please play “Let’s Get It Started” by the Black Eyed Peas.

 Truth: What’s your biggest turn-on?

BRB, filling this information away for later.

Dare: Screenshot your browser history.

Caught red-handed.

Truth: What’s your biggest turn-off?

Consider it a “note to self.”

Dare: Facetime me and do a striptease. 

I mean, take things to the next level.

Truth: Have you ever filmed a sex tape? 

I dare you to ask them this.

Dare: Send me a dirty picture. 

Nothing wrong with this classic question.

Truth: What’s your favorite position?

No bad first time for you two.

Dare: Come over here and kiss me.

Who knows where this might lead to…

• dating
• sex and relationships
• truth or dare questions
• wellness