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These Valentine’s Day Dates Are Perfect For Your LDR

Julia Heming

With Valentine’s Day quickly approaching, dates are definitely on the front of anyone in a relationship’s mind. But, if you are in a long-distance relationship, you might be struggling a little bit with finding the perfect way to celebrate being with your partner in a way that’s fun, and intimate, even through a screen. However, there are tons of long-distance Valentine’s Day date ideas out there — and they might be even more fun than an IRL dinner and a movie.

It’s totally understandable if you are super bummed about not being with your partner; long-distance relationships definitely come with unique challenges. Being in a long-distance relationship during Valentine’s Day, obviously, is not ideal, but in the age of the internet and FaceTime, there are dozens of options. If you are looking for a way to get some quality time with your partner (or ways to spice your holiday with some phone sex), consider this your guide to the perfect Valentine’s Day date for your LDR. The cardinal rule? Think about the things you like to do together and find ways to modify them to fit the virtual mold. And don’t worry, there are still plenty of ways you can surprise your partner, no matter how far away you are. 

While Valentine’s Day is a few weeks away, it’s never too early to start planning. So, here are eight unique Valentine’s Day dates for long-distance relationships. Trust me, your partner will love it.

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Get to cooking.

Find a recipe that both of you love — complete with a mocktail, cocktail, or wine pairing — and Facetime while you cook. You both get to cook and enjoy talking to each other but the kitchen isn’t too crowded. Sounds like a dream to me, honestly.

Read a romance novel out loud.

If you are a smut lover, this is a great way to spend Valentine’s with your long-distance partner. Get comfy, grab your favorite smut novel, and read a few chapters out loud — the spicier the better, IMHO. As someone who has tried this before, it’s a sure way to make things spicier, and it creates some great ideas for what to do the next time you see each other. 

Send them a care package with an activity. 

I am a huge care package girl — I think they are the perfect holiday gift. So, fill a box with things for your partner along with an interactive activity that the both of you can do: A Lego set, or a canvas and some paint, along with a bottle of wine make perfect, relaxing, date night activities. Then, Facetime and complete your activities together on the phone. 

Have a dinner date.

Pick a time and set the table for one. Then, Facetime your partner and have dinner delivered to each other place via Doordash, Uber Eats, or another delivery service. The catch? What you order for them is a complete surprise. Once dinner is served, sit together on FaceTime and try your surprise dishes on like you are on a dinner date, but with no idea what you ordered. 

Spice up phone sex.

There’s no better way to celebrate V-Day than getting down and dirty, but if you and your partner are long-distance, mutual masturbation might be the only way to get off. Pick something spicy to try like a new outfit or toy and have it delivered to them. Then, Facetime and have some fun trying everything out. 

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Send them flowers.

This is a classic for a reason, if you are long-distance and don’t have time for a virtual date or Facetime, make them feel special by having flowers delivered. I mean, everyone likes flowers, and it’s a cute way to make your SO feel special.

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I recently had a guy introduce me to Amazon Watch Party,  and it changes the game for long distances. Pick a new series, create an Amazon Watch Party, and watch the same show at the same time. This is perfect if you both want to do something, but don’t want to just be on FaceTime. 

Take them on a tour of your city.

Finally, FaceTime your partner while walking around your city, and show them your favorite spots or cool monuments. It’s the perfect way to get you out of the house and exploring while still spending time with them.  Plus, you might even find something new while talking to them!

Remember that long distance isn’t forever and soon enough you will be able to do all of these things with them right next to you. And while you may be spending Valentine’s Day apart, there are still ways to make the holiday special.

Julia is a national writer for Her Campus. While she writes for all verticals, her focus is the wellness section, bringing you everything you need to know about relationships, astrology, and the best ways to get down and dirty. Julia is a grad student at Syracuse University where she studies communications. She is a graduate of Stony Brook University, where she studied journalism with a minor in women's studies. During her time at SBU, she was a VS PINK campus rep, and an active member of Her Campus @ SBU. When she isn't writing, you can find Julia reading a smutty romance novel, hitting up her local crystal shop, or thrifting with an iced oat milk latte in hand. She's a Capricorn (but you probably already knew that) and a practicing yogi.