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Before Hooking Up, You *Need* To Know The 10 Spots To Spray Perfume

When it comes to setting the mood for an unforgettable night, creating the perfect atmosphere is essential for your more intimate moments. And trust me, the right fragrance can work wonders. Perfume isn’t just an accessory; it’s a way to express your unique personality and enhance your confidence. Plus, a killer scent can stir emotions, spark memories, and turn up the heat — making it an essential part of your pre-date ritual. So, where should you spray perfume before sex?

Did you know that pulse points are the areas where your blood vessels are close to the skin and the places that generate warmth? Certain pulse points can amplify the scent, making you irresistible. But remember, a little dose does go a long way, so don’t over-spray. A light spritz on other areas can leave a lingering trail that keeps you fresh and alluring throughout the night, especially if things become a little more steamy — hint, hint, wink, wink.

Ultimately, you should always choose specific spots in order to maximize your perfume. And several aura points for you if you can create an atmosphere that draws your partner closer and enhances the intimacy of the night. To really heighten your senses during sex, here are 10 perfume placements to get you started on your sexy, scent-sational journey.

Ankles

Believe me, the TikTok ankle perfume trend is real. Placing your perfume here definitely is close enough for your partner to notice. And once you take your socks off, a spritz will keep the focus exactly where you want it.

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Behind the ears

Spritzing perfume behind the ears makes your scent subtly intoxicating as you lean in close. It’s the perfect spot to tease and tempt, and it’s intimate enough for your partner to catch a whiff when you’re whispering sweet nothings.

Behind the knees

It might be the first spot you think of when spraying perfume, but behind the knees is the perfect place to smell good. Especially if you’re a missionary, having your legs over your partner’s shoulders could be a fun way to sneak in the scent.

Hair

Spraying a bit in your hair can leave a lingering scent as you move. Just remember to use a light touch to avoid any residue or heaviness.

Hip Bones

A light mist on your hip bones can also work, but be careful not to overdo it. Just on on enough to leave them guessing and not overwhelm your vibe down there. Let them wonder if it’s your perfume or you’re just naturally that irresistible.

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Perfume on the hipbones is like a spell 🧙‍♀️

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Inner Thighs

Similar to behind the knees, your inner thighs are a great spot to spritz a little perfume for when your partner gets, well, down there. But be careful not to overdo it, as too much can be overwhelming — you just want it to be a hint.

Inside of elbows

The inside of your elbows is almost a secret spot that gives off an alluring scent every time you move. And if you both are holding each other, that scent can create an intimate atmosphere, drawing you even closer together.

Lower back

This is a subtly sensual spot. As you move, the scent wafts into the air, creating an alluring trail behind you.

Neck

Spraying perfume on your neck is like putting a subtle “come closer” sign. And when your partner goes in for the kiss, the scent envelops them, creating an intimate moment that lingers long after the kiss is over.

Wrist

When you run your fingers through their hair or hold them close, your wrists not only radiate a gentle warmth but also carry a subtle scent that can drive your partner wild.

Choosing the right perfume and knowing where to apply it — from subtle spritzes behind the ears to more daring applications on the inner thighs or neck — can significantly enhance intimacy and create a seductive atmosphere. And with a light touch and attention to pulse points, you can absolutely create an irresistible aura that lingers throughout the night.

Lily Brown

Emerson '25

Lily Brown is a National Writer for Her Campus Media. She writes for the Culture, Style, and Wellness verticals on the site, including Beauty, Decor, Digital, Entertainment, Experiences, Fashion, Mental Health, and Sex + Relationships coverage. Beyond Her Campus, Lily is a senior at Emerson College in Boston, MA, majoring in Journalism with a Publishing minor. She works as the Creative Director for the on-campus lifestyle publication, Your Magazine, where she establishes and curates the conceptual design and content for the entire publication ranging from style, romance, music, pop culture, personal identity, and college experiences. In her free time, Lily maybe spends a little too much time keeping a close eye on captivating red carpet and runway fashion, and binge-watching her favorite shows. She also enjoys expressing her thoughts through creative writing, exploring new destinations, and blasting Chappell Roan, Childish Gambino, Frank Ocean, Harry Styles, and Sabrina Carpenter on Spotify.